My First New England Winter

I’ve heard this winter is mild. I’ve also been told that they haven’t had a snow like we had about a week ago in decades. It seems likely that both are equally true. About a week and a half ago was the first time I’d ever been in snow higher than maybe a foot, I believe, and we probably topped out at maybe 2 1/2 ft deep after the third solid snow in a few days. I realize there are many places in the world that have much more snow, much more regularly, but my experience with solid winters is somewhat limited, and the places I’ve lived that have a full four seasons still are relatively mild most of the time – Virginia, Maryland, Germany, Belgium, Indiana – so this is the first place that I think even semi-regularly gets down below zero a few times a winter. This winter, though, I know the ice skating rink in town hasn’t even been able to open yet because it keeps warming up above freezing so often they aren’t maintaining enough ice for it to be safe. Guessing that rules out ice fishing for a great many people – the little one has expressed interest in ice fishing with Nate, so we’ll add that to the to do list once we’re in town full time.

The drifts of snow were gorgeous – like clouds. They were also hilarious, because they were fluffy and full after first falling and every time we lost our balance, catching yourself on the thing immediately in front of you basically just resulted in you falling further and further as you grasped at something akin to airy piles of powdered sugar. The first time I let myself fall backwards into the snow, Gilly from the top of the hill exclaimed, “Oh no! We have to help mama!” much like she thought that the sled we tried to take down the hill that sank into the snow was being lost forever akin to a sinking ship. A tragic moment for her, but hilarious for everyone else.

Today we’re sitting at a high of 11° and a low of -16° which if the air was still wouldn’t actually be that unbearable with layers and gloves – but the windchill is what makes it dangerous – wind chills as low as -45°. I’m mildly annoyed that Nate will have a day off that we can’t spend up at the house working on much of anything, but really this is the first day we’ve not worked purely because of the weather. Next week we’ll be back into perfectly wonderful 40° days with slightly below freezing nights. Guess that else that means? It’s almost tapping time!!

We did some walking on the day the cottage was put up (something updated elsewhere but not here, maybe I’ll toss some pictures up at the end of the cottage) to an area of the property we had not explored fully yet and discovered a few things. We found another well, this one within sight of our north-western neighbor – we had walked within 15 feet of this previously when following the property line to find the corner of the property in this area, but didn’t notice it. It’s a gaping one, seems like it would have water more often throughout the year than some of the others and constructed beautifully. What this means is that it’s a clean drop in and it definitely needs a good cover or well house built over it. The other thing we were looking for in our wanderings through the woods was sugar maples. While we’re not confident that all the maples we identified are sugar maples – we do have some red maple as well – there was a large number of tappable maples in this area as well as – insert gasp of excitement here – birches! I learned about birch syrup some years ago, have never tried it, but am a big fan of birch beer, and while I’m sure the modern version is probably nothing like the original and I know this is made with the root, if birch syrup has any of the flavor profile that birch beer has in comparison to other sweeteners, I really want to make some. We have little stands of birch here and there, but we found enough 8″ and larger trees to tap that I think we should be able to make at least an okay amount of birch syrup. Because we haven’t finished insulating the cottage yet and we don’t have a solid heat source in it yet (though we do have a perfectly sized wood stove for the space) this likely will mean a good deal of driving back and forth to collect and boil down sap for syrup. I hadn’t figured for sap season to be the need for any kind of sabbatical, but it may make for a very tired me.

The warmer days coming up mean we can finally finish the digging in the well room as things thaw during the day and hopefully put the beefy sills in that have been sitting out back under tarp and snow for a few weeks now. The plumber also said we should wait a few weeks to do the new connection to the septic in the well room/old laundry room, but a few weeks seems like good timing to me.

The task that is going to be the most obnoxious, expensive, and require a great deal of heavy lifting for Nate and I is installing some measure of deer fencing around where we will have the orchard. It’s possible that my reasoning is poor and the deer will in fact just waltz right around the fence into the orchard, but I do think that having to travel the fairly steep ditch and the road in order to do so would be a deterrent. The fence would be 8′ tall and maybe halfway around the sharp curve of the field to the lone oak tree standing in the middle near the road, and then at the woods edge almost all the way across the property where the trees were cut, and then wrap around the front until we run out of trees near the front of the house. It would not coincide with the property line except by the orchard field and maybe the front east side of the house because we’re likely using trees as living fence posts and it would be too difficult to put the fence along the stone wall and maintain the stone wall. The goal is large animal deterrent, not property marking, though there are a few spots where the property line could use some freshening up. The rolls of fence aren’t even the 8′ tall ones, I figured out that without a tractor, that would be nearly impossible for us to do, and the terrain doesn’t lend itself to that well. We’ll have to use 330′ rolls of 47″ high woven wire and make sure the spacing is such that it reaches 8′ tall. The real struggle is going to be that rough and likely muddy terrain while carrying rolls of fence that weigh 192 lbs a roll. So wish us luck with all that. Hopefully it’s not the kind of thing that will need to be entirely redone anytime soon since it is at least theoretically a pretty sturdy fence. Planning for a gate into the woods in a few places, but some of them haven’t been plotted out yet and I probably shouldn’t wait much longer on that. As I’ve been told, the time goes fast and the Spring and Summer fly and the aquatic waterfowl had better get lined up ahead of time to get things done when they need to be.

If we want to actually have fence up before fruit trees go in, this needs to probably get done in the next few weeks. This will be a bigger front loaded burden on us, but hopefully reduce the burden down the line when we don’t have to individually fence each tree that goes in. Then again, if deer pressure is way higher than I think and they just jump it, then it may not matter at all, but the plan is to seed some things for them out in the woods so hopefully they have incentive to stay back in the woods since there is a water source and will hopefully be enough food sources that they don’t need to come check out the farmyard.

I know we’re just now in the middle of winter, but somehow even with the -6° weather outside right now I can feel it ending, realizing I spent far less of the winter knitting than I thought I would and a great deal more doing the labor to build the life we are wanting. I’m okay with this, I’ll have other winters to really hunker down and just knit while buried in wool once we’re in our place. For now there is less hunkering and more hustling to get things done and get into our place and this is, like winter, just the season we are in right now.

Glass Plate Negatives

In clearing out the well room, we came across (again – I had seen this before but not opened it to fully explore) two boxes of glass plate negatives. Glass plate negatives were used between the 1850’s until the 1920’s, depending on the type. Since this is an entirely new thing to me, I couldn’t tell you which type we have I looked on the box to see if I could find out what we have. The box says these are rapid dry plates which means they were the kind invented in 1871 and used until around 1920.

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You almost can’t see anything when you look in the box – the negatives have to be held up to the light to see any of the pictures, much like more recent film negatives (practically as obsolete as these today!). But when placed on a light box, you get a good idea of what the photo is and could look like.

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After watching a tutorial of how to reverse a negative in lightroom, I was able to use my phone (ah, smart phones!) to reverse these and change them to black and white. Pretty amazing. Especially when you consider they’re over 100 years old and have been sitting in an unheated or cooled house for almost 27 years untended and exposed to those temperature changes (it can get down to below 25 in winter and in the high 90’s in summer where the house is in southern NH).

The previous owner’s father was something of a hoarder according to the local townspeople – he told many people that he collected anything there is more than one of! – so it’s unlikely that these are there relatives and more likely that they were acquired at a rummage sale or flea market as part of a “collection” of his. I’m excited to print some of them. I think the girl on the chair with the glasses perched on the end of her nose is my favorite. She looks serious, but it’s obviously a silly pose to put such a small child in. Nice to know they still had a sense of humor despite rarely smiling in photographs.

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What’s the coolest old thing you’ve ever found. I think along with the hand dug well, this is the neatest one we’ve found so far.

Arrival

We’re here. Here being New England. Currently staying with my mother-in-law while we work on figuring out the logistics of getting ourselves onto our property.

A while ago we sold the airstream we purchased in FL (didn’t even make it long enough to have its own blog post, I don’t think). It was a project in and of itself and while we have a wood stove that we purchased from The Windy Smithy and had shipped over from England for that purpose, it would still be living in a tin can without running water all winter. I am arguing strongly for a temporary solution that works as well as a semi-permanent one, mostly because I have looked at and read enough blogs, posts, and books about old houses to know that whatever timeline you think you’re on to fix up and old house, you may as well double or possibly triple it. I also feel having some indoor space for people to move around in is important, because while I fully intend to get out and spend time in the cold weather, it’s also nice to be able to turn around in a circle or put out a yoga mat if it’s below freezing outside and move your muscles while spending time in, or stuck, indoors, whichever it is.

We may start with a large workshop and rough it until we get things finished out to a more livable state. I looked at both New England Outdoor and Reed’s Ferry who are local builders of sheds, garages, etc. who prebuild the walls and can “throw them up” within a few hours or days time depending on the size. They’re stick built (2 by dimensional lumber) and not timber framed, which would be my first choice, but we’re trying to save money so that the majority of it goes into the house, not the temporary house. New England Outdoor has a wider range of size options, and we figure 16×26 is a good size for usable space – workshop or living depending on its end use. The quality looks good to my fairly untrained eye and they also have pretty excellent reviews, so my confidence is mostly there, it’s just a matter of getting things to line up and get it done before Winter.

We talked about possibly doing a garage, since a garage is eminently useful when we’ll be living in a climate with an average snowfall of 68″ per year, however, the difference in cost is significant and thus the savings in not doing this now will help towards the end goal. A garage is still probably a good goal for later, but maybe after we’re occupying the property and have a better idea of the cost breakdown for certain needed items of repair (of which there are plenty).

So far, we met with a forester (who grew up in the town where our house is) to come up with a plan so that we can coordinate clearing space around the house for agricultural goals (garden, orchard, future animals) and house needs (new septic, possibly future geothermal?) along with thinning some of the back woods to offset some of the cost of clearing. Harvesting wood on a larger scale, aside from cutting down a few trees for firewood each year, is something that really will only happen once, maybe twice within someone’s lifetime on a property, and we’re not interested in clearcutting our woods at any point so it’s best if the clearcutting and the thinning happens at the same time, so that the cost is balanced for us and so that the machinery only has to arrive one time. The land around the house has young and poorer quality trees since it was previously farmland, so it’s also the best candidate for this use again. It’s relatively level and we have a pretty clear stopping point once we get back in the woods and get to the area where the snowmelt runs through in a small gully seasonally.

I’ve already preordered a potentially stupid amount of garlic for the fall (can one really have too much garlic though?) and definitely more new seeds than I can plant in even a few seasons, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned from my experience gardening, it’s that you should overplant and experiment and see what happens and this is easiest done when you have an excess of seeds to grow. Plus, I like having an excuse to share. I’m sure they happen, but I haven’t seen many seed or plant exchanges in the NH gardening group I’m in so maybe I’ll have to host one and get it going. Might be a good way to meet the local plant nerds and get some cuttings of plants I can’t justify buying at this present moment (peonies, anyone?).

I’m happy to be here. I feel somewhat in limbo and kind of like I’m just here on another work trip since our things are still mostly in storage and we’re living out of suitcases, but this is part of the experience, and while it’s going to be wild and crazy work, I have enjoyed the process so far and look forward to really getting stuck in.

Heading up tomorrow morning sans kiddo to get some basic tasks done and talk to our timber framer about what he thinks he can/should work on next. Cheers to progress!

Going North

Once upon a time ago (this is how my daughter was starting stories for a while and I love it), we lived in Indiana for a year with our friends the Gaitans. This was after we had lived in Florida for basically the entirety of our marriage (we got married less than a month before I moved to FL from KY by myself and then Nate followed me 6 months-ish later) and primarily I had decided I was done with this perpetual summer thing and I wanted seasons. I though I convinced Nate to come along, but I actually think he just did it because I wouldn’t shut up about it, and then the move back to Florida from Indiana was my turn to pretty much be in that position. So we each had a move that was more one of us than the other, but hopefully this one will end up being the one where we’re truly both all in.

Indiana taught us a few things. We were indeed pretty much mentally and physically done with perpetual summer. Indiana was not our place (though we did know some cool people there). We did, in fact, as our adult selves, actually like having winter and seasons. I remember when I was teaching and it was nearing the end of winter with quite low temperatures still and my coworkers were bemoaning the cold and I was thinking to myself, “I’m good with this.” Part of going north then was to discover whether we actually were okay with winter or whether I had really hyped it up in my mind as a knitter and from playing in the snow during my childhood and the brief winter period I had when I lived in Bowling Green, KY in 2009-2010. Nate grew up in Massachusetts, so it’s not like he is unfamiliar with a real winter with lots and excessive snows and cold snaps, but I’d really only had snows and winter when I was young or for a few years here and there as we lived in cold areas at various ages.

Turns out, it’s not just an excuse to wear all the things I enjoy knitting now. Though, this is a definite plus. Guys! The sweaters I can knit! I have currently as of today been able to wear woolens only a few nights since winter started, and that’s only because we basically don’t even set the heat to turn on until it is dipping into the 40’s outside.

When we lived in Indiana, we took a trip over to Massachusetts. This was actually my first time to visit New England, but boy was it the best time of year to go. We went in October, stopped in New York on the way for a camping trip (sadly, this was the last time we’ve been camping) and were in New England for peak autumnal bliss. Apple picking, leaf crunchy, the whole bit. We went up to Maine (another first for me) and it’s not that I hadn’t basically loved New England before (albeit entirely in theory based off all my knowledge of the things it is as a place and my love of crisp air and spiced cider), but now I could truthfully add it to my short list of places to end up. Requirements included: a full four seasons, good gardening (at least 10 acres), mountains (if not there, then very close), regular precipitation (important for growing things), and reasonable access to the coast (for Nate, and if not the coast, then good river and lake fishing).

We looked in Maine. In fact, we put offers on two houses in Maine. Both were 1800’s farmhouses with barns and between 20 and 40 acres. One looked very much like The Firefly Inn from Gilmore Girls and the other was amazing because it had a stream running through the property (something I think I would both love and be moderately terrified of these days as a parent of a toddler). As it is, we didn’t end up buying a house in Readfield or Appleton Maine, though I feel confident either of those places would’ve been phenomenal as well. We also put offers in on two properties in New Hampshire, one of which was 70 acres and both of which had either riverfront or stream adjacent property. But – this was at the height of the market basically just being insane.

Ultimately we decided to stop looking in Maine, not because we don’t think Maine is wonderful and gorgeous, but because while we’re dreamers, we also try to be practical and there are job related things involving eventual transfers and continuances of work that are much more likely in a place with multiple locations to choose from and with a market within driving distance of those places that isn’t just…well, atrocious. Portland, ME would be the Maine area and it is the most expensive city in the state and while we maybe could’ve managed to get a place within driving distance of there with 10+ acres, the pickings were mighty slim and getting slimmer as the market started to gain in insanity. The overall economy of New Hampshire seems to do better and provides more opportunities overall, not to mention the lack of state tax and income tax, which I’m a fan of. Boring, very adult reasons that don’t include the big plans and dreams we have. I suppose if we really were to just dive in and go for it, there were quite a few other options, but I think the wee one helped curb some of that instinct a bit.

So, after being outbid more than once by a very hefty margin that we foresaw happening again (and yet still couldn’t accurately predict since putting in offers on property is a total guessing game when trying to get it and yet save as much of your purchase power as possible), we decided to go a more non-traditional route. I used this software for a month to gather leads based on specific criteria (oh yes, I neglected to mention above that we wanted an old house, because New England is home to many of the oldest houses in the country, many of which are sadly getting bulldozed in favor of short-lived modern construction methods). I wrote over 50 handwritten letters and a handful of emails to people inquiring about purchasing their property – explaining a bit about who we are, what we want to do as far as growing our own food, building things, raising animals, and using the old-world skills we’ve acquired so far. The coolest thing in this process (next to actually getting a place) was the handwritten cards I received in return and the few phone calls from people. One gentleman called and we had a nearly hour long conversation – he didn’t want to sell me the property since there were still family members who were willing to take care of it, but he said he almost wishes he did, since we were the kind of people he’d like to sell to. We talked about the property, the history of it in his family, and the restoration he’d undertaken on the property. It was a great conversation and moment of connection with someone over a thing we clearly we both appreciated despite never having met.

I’m only marginally disappointed that the property we ended up purchasing actually came after sending an email rather than a handwritten letter. It was, I thought, maybe one of the less ideal leads since I couldn’t really see much of the property (if you could see the google map view, you’d understand, it was from 2013 and the place was entirely shrouded in wild), the tax card wasn’t accessible online, and it had been vacant for quite a while. But, I found an email address, the next day had another hour long conversation with the owner who had inherited the place from his dad and held onto it for sentimental reasons, the realtor walked it and sent us photos and videos the day after that, and the next day we signed an offer and had a contract.

So, we begin, here in the south, in central Florida, our journey of heading north to central New Hampshire. We are the stewards of a circa 1785 built farmhouse with a connected ell and barn. There is a well room off the back right side of the ell (the well is a hand dug stone lined well of the fairy tale variety except for the fact that it’s in a boarded up old building that looks a little spooky at the moment). The 3-seater outhouse is just off the middle-rear of the ell, and this all sits on close to 33 mostly-wooded acres. It was formerly farmland (a local utility repairman says he remembers when it was mostly fields when he was a kid some 40-something years ago), but has grown in significantly in the almost 30 years it’s been unoccupied or only occasionally occupied.

To say we’re excited about this is an understatement if ever there was one. Oh the sweaters I can knit!

Year of the Book

I know. It should be Year of Corona or Year of the Pandemic or some such thing, but it ended up being the Year of the Book for me. I decided early this year (or late last year? I truly don’t remember at this point) that instead of taking my phone with me when I put the babe down to sleep (nap and bedtime) and scrolling while she’s nursing, I would read. Thanks to a hand-me-down kindle, the lady who said she wouldn’t ever be an e-book person (that’d be me) has read 61 books this year. I still prefer real paper books, but the logistics of nursing a child while laying down and holding a book any bigger than a pamphlet’s thickness is not great. Even the kindle isn’t swell on the hands, wrists, and arms sometimes, but it’s manageable. The nuttiest part about my 61 books is that I don’t think I read more than 10 hours outside of that time with Gilly.

I have never been able to do audiobooks – I have a hard enough time paying attention when I’m reading out loud to someone else or they to me, though I still enjoy when Nate and I used to read to each other on long car rides (there hasn’t been a road trip since Gilly was born, so it’s been a long time since that’s happened), despite my own difficulty in maintaining myself as a captive audience. It is my belief that the required reading during college and then later during constant trainings while I was teaching, despite enjoying quite a bit of that required reading, somewhat ruined my drive for choosing reading as a thing to do during my past-time. It was also somewhat dampened by my picking up knitting as a hobby, since I’m not talented enough to both knit and read at the same time (I’ve met people who can and envy them greatly). This required my tiny bit of free time to be split between either knitting or some other hobby and thus far knitting more frequently won out, but I absolutely cannot lay down while nursing a baby and knit, so devouring books while messing up my not-so-great right shoulder has been my chosen activity.

It is a possibility that I could just lay there and give myself some quiet time to think, but I assure you, I would fall asleep every time, and I am a terrible napper. I love naps. But even now when my sleeping habits have been ruined by whatever hormones seem to crush good sleeping habits once you become a mother, I cannot take a normal sized nap. If I fall asleep, it’s more likely than not that I will sleep more than 2 hours. This wouldn’t affect my nighttime sleeping – I don’t think at least – I guess I haven’t really tested it, but I’d rather it not mess it up, and I’ll not test it just to see. So, because I stink at taking rationally-timed naps, I just try to avoid napping unless I actually have a day I can “waste” – which, lets be honest – I never do.

One thing of note about the books I’ve read and continue to read is that I likely won’t have a book that I’ve read that I would rate as anything less than 3/5 stars. This is because if a book is this unenjoyable, I just won’t keep reading it. I’ve reached the point where I have decided that since this is chosen reading that occupies precious “free time” and nobody is compelling the reading except me, I just won’t keep going if it isn’t at least interesting. There are too many things in the world to read that could hold my interest past the first 20% of the text to keep going if it’s miserable.

I also took up a strategy at the example of my Aunt to read a non-fiction alternated with a fiction. This usually means that I’ll breeze through some fiction and it usually takes me longer to read the non-fiction books. I find that even the most interesting non-fiction book doesn’t tend to be a page turner, plus I’m sure it’s engaging my brain at least a little bit more and so the processing time is likely increased. I used goodreads.com to track my reading, so I could see if this is true across the board, but I don’t care to check so much as I am assuming this is the case.

Of all the books I read this year, here are the ones I would recommend highly to others, sorted by fiction and non-fiction.

Fiction

  • The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
  • Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman
  • The Ocean at the End of the Lane by Neil Gaiman
  • Between Shades of Grey by Ruta Sepetys
  • The Light Between Oceans by M L Stedman
  • A Place for Us by Fatima Farheen Mirza
  • The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin
  • Girl at War by Sara Novic
  • There There by Tommy Orange
  • The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
  • Burial Rites by Hannah Kent

Non-Fiction

  • The Sound of Gravel by Ruth Wariner
  • I Contain Multitudes by Ed Yong
  • The Fire This Time by Jesmyn Ward
  • The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
  • The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J Stanley
  • Educated by Tara Westover
  • Lab Girl by Hope Jahren
  • The Radium Girls by Kate Moore
  • How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan
  • A Mother’s Reckoning by Sue Klebold
  • Hillbilly Elegy by JD Vance

Over-sowing

Here we are again, technically in the season of Autumn, and yet, the days are barely less hot than before. Thanks, Florida. I do remember regularly why we left. And with Corona making it so hard to spend time with people, it’s harder to remember why we returned (mostly for people).

I planted quite a few seedlings that have since just disintegrated into crispy nothingness in the garden beds, despite regular watering and mulch of various kinds. Guess it’s a good thing I always over-sow my seeds. 86-91 degree weather in what is approaching mid-October is a disgrace to the season, but it’s the climate we’re in and despite having spent a majority of my life’s years in this state, it’s one I’m still not excellent at managing when it comes to growing our food. Somehow, however, I have managed to successfully grow some of the first peppers ever from seed, both hot and sweet. Not many, but it’s a start. They seem much more finicky than [almost] everything else, so I’ll have to explore more to see what they really like and need. The only other thing I know that should grow well here and almost never does it eggplant. They’ll get maybe 3-4 inches tall and then just stay there until nothing else happens and they die.

Possibly more frustrating than my lack of ability to control the growth of certain veg has been my lately lack of control over my nursing child. I don’t think she’s teething, she likes to eat food – at least some of the time, but she has doubled down on nursing as though she is fresh out of the womb again. I know it’s normal. I also know that I can stop nursing her, but I do also feel a bit like I’m traumatizing her by not giving her something she loves that I have readily available when she is upset. Though, I do think part of the issue is that when she generally wants it, it isn’t because she is hungry, it is a coping mechanism because she is upset that I am trying to work or not giving her my undivided attention (is that a thing I even have anymore? I’m not really sure.). I love her. I know this won’t last forever. And yet, there are some days when I feel like I have very little sanity left and am not sure how to approach that.

In more positive news in my life as a parent, there have been more than one occasion in the last month where Gilly willingly left the house without me on an outing to a park or elsewhere with papa instead of me. No tears, just a “buh-bye” and a promise of “mamack” (mama milk) when she gets back. This is a development I am most definitely fine with. The phrase “ball and chain” never was an apt description for my husband, but it very much applies to my daughter. A very adorable, intelligent, and all around wonderful ball and chain, and yet, once she passed infant and approached toddler (coinciding rather abruptly with coronavirus halting all general comingling with other breathing humans), basically the only time I wasn’t in the same building with her was when she was napping and I managed to sneak just outside for a little while to work in the yard (not the sort of decompressing activity I recommend living in central Florida during the summer).

The kid’s vocabulary is positively exploding. She used sign language to communicate starting at around 6-7 months and started phasing that out and using words around a year, but lately, I feel like we’re more surprised by phrases and attempts at whole sentences that we just didn’t realize she had in her. A little demanding at times (“mama, lay down”) or just straightforward when she needs help (“papa, do dis”), but surprising in the vocabulary she has acquired so quickly and is able to recall. I don’t know what the typical vocabulary of a 23.5 month old is (she’s not 2 yet!) – okay, fine I just googled it – I’m going to go out on a limb and say she’s well past the 50 word mile marker. She can identify loons, herons, chickadees, woodpeckers, and blue jays by name. Her favorite animal is an okapi – I came across a copy of The Living Rain Forest: An Animal Alphabet at Mojo’s and it’s among her favorite books, so frequently a fish isn’t just a fish, it’s a “panga” (piranha) and a monkey isn’t just a monkey, it’s a “gidda” (gorilla). She not only requests Dolly Parton songs (since she learned that she isn’t just a face inside some of her favorite book jackets, but also a singer), but will request specific ones, like “nine five” (Nine to Five) or “woo woo” (I Believe In You). Her favorite phrase right now is “Whaas at?” (what’s that?) and I’m sure as long as it is her vocabulary will just continue to explode. I’d love to start a list of words she knows, but I’m sure I’d lose track in no time (I may try anyway).

Other words she knows, but can’t say properly (because, kiddisms)

  • goats = ghosts
  • whick = whisk
  • fie-dah = spider
  • tootis = tortoise
  • faybit = favorite
  • keydis = curious
  • fodetti = spaghetti
  • noon-ohs = noodles
  • lemontimes = clementine
  • sow-duh = sour

Anyway, I have little time left before I should definitely be asleep since I haven’t gotten a full night’s sleep in quite some time, and there are still some things left on the to do list (don’t worry, it isn’t folding the laundry, that’s just in a pile on the rug to do another time, I wouldn’t put that high on the priority list). One day I’ll write about more interesting things, but here we are chugging through, surviving, working, attempting to make some lovely memories and not lose our minds while doing it. How’s your Corona season going?

weak

It’s amazing how weak I am after having a kid and not having done much in the way of any kind of exercise except yard work and picking her up for the last 20 months. I mean that literally – I finally got myself a yoga mat (what happened to the last one is a mystery) and started a very basic, low time commitment (something I’m very short on currently) workout that’s aimed at specifically working on my diastasis recti (separation of the ab muscles – common in post-partum women). Moves that would’ve seemed very easy and taken little effort previously, while not difficult while doing them, made me feel considerably sore on today, day 2 of an attempted program after so long without one. You’d think just doing yard work in the heat and humidity of Florida would be enough to build some strength, but clearly I’m doing the wrong moves.

Despite having done loads of yard work, the grass and weeds are creeping in. Obviously didn’t lay a thick enough layer of mulch out front. The front is still largely an experiment in fruit trees and flowers, the latter of which I’m still quite new to. I probably should have made sure I had sufficient cardboard to put down under all the mulch I put down out front, but I didn’t, so I’m going to have to redo using a decent weed barrier as cardboard becomes available (and hopefully as the weather eventually cools down). Nate and I have both agreed that we may get more pleasure from seeing the flowers and abundant butterflies out front than we ever have from growing vegetables. Though I suppose the eating of the vegetables is a separate enjoyment and not necessarily comparable.

Someone give me instructions for growing good peppers from seed in Florida. Last best advice was to grow them in pots because nematodes are an issue. I have some in raised beds giving me a scant few peppers, but they still just seem so small and like they’re growing sooo sloooowly. Our soil is still pretty new and even with a few inches of compost I wonder if it’s just not enough. Anybody have a for sure way to grow peppers they want to share with me?

Still odd, despite being a relative homebody, to have to spend this much time at home. I feel like Gillian is going to get to her second birthday having ever made only a handful of toddler/kid friends and that’s a little sad. If coronavirus keeps all this lock-down, mask, and social distancing stuff up for much longer, she may not get a second birthday party. But if she doesn’t have friends to invite, I suppose that’s okay, we’ll just dance party here ourselves.

We’re coming up on two years of living in this house and I’m still working my way through organizing it in a way I even kinda like. These aren’t really the things I want to blog about, but my daily grind have become a little mundane. Maybe in the fall I’ll at least have more fun garden things to write about, but in all honesty, it’s been so hot lately I have hardly ventured out for more than getting the mail from the mailbox. Well, we went to Violet Curry park last night, but the kid didn’t want to walk 90% of the time (literally, she just stood behind us as we walked the trail away from her until we had to come back and pick her up – glad I brought the Lenny), and it was still so hot and sticky that it was only kind of a good time.

I did finally finish a new knitting project that I’m actually quite proud of and start another one (in truth, this last one I’ve started 3 times now). I finished a bonnet for Gilly for the winter that may be one of the most beautiful and mistake-free things I’ve ever made. The current project is a new and softer hat for Nate (everything I’ve made for him was early on from when I was less skilled and used less high quality yarn so I’m trying to upgrade a few things for him). The hat had a construction I didn’t love involving some backwards loop casting on which is super hard (for me) when knitting in the round to not get twisted so I went ahead and changed the initial construction. Then, I realized the hat was too loose. Then, I realized it was still looser than I wanted and I would like to add some ribbing to tighten up the brim of the hat. So, several restarts later, I think I’m satisfied with where the pattern is sitting. You know, cause I have so much extra time to knit and reknit things these days. Ha!

 

Today In the Garden

My bean inoculant finally came. So today was bean day.

Inoculated and planted out Provider Green Bush Bean, White Dixie Butter Pea Lima Bean, Rattlesnake Snap Pole Bean, Kentucky Wonder 125 Pole Bean, Worchester Indian Red Pole Bean, Holstein Bush Bean, and Violet’s Multi-Colored Butter Bean (which I have a suspicion is the same as the Willow-Leaf Colored Lima Bean based on appearance and description, but they come from two different seed companies).

Transplanted my Straight Eight Cucumber along with some radishes (I’d have to check the variety later – don’t recall and it’s dark out now) and plan to transplant the Ashley Cucumber tomorrow (had to decide where to put it since trellis space is limited and I think the Five Year Lima cross might crowd it out). Still need to determine a good place to grow some yard long beans, but I know they’re more heat tolerant, so I’m in less of a hurry.

Peppers and tomatoes are growing really slowly. Still have a fair amount of seedlings to put out, but need to determine a good location for a raised bed or mound (probably a mount at this point since we’re kinda tapped out on materials). Celtuce and the Butterhead (need to get that variety for the record) are both doing great under the shade cloth. It’s a wonder we have any tomatoes ripening since Gilly picks half ripe ones and entirely green ones only to decide she doesn’t even want a bite and just drops them on the ground. Lots of the red ones are out of her reach now. Everglades are all hers, but she likes the Mofos. Ah well.

Shiso is still growing, but is short. Learned it can be salt preserved (seems a better option to preserve flavor compared to drying) so may try that. Some okra in a seeding tray and some popping up between the kale to help provide some shade and hopefully free the shade cloth up for use elsewhere.

Need to transplant my sunflowers and a bunch of other flowers. Lilies popping up out front. Not sure of the asiatic variety (Nate got the bulbs cheap at Aldi I think) but hopefully we’ll get at least one bloom from them. Daylilies of a few types have buds but no flowers. Need to transplant the remaining rain lilies. Two flowers popped up the other day, but oddly enough after no rain. Maybe 50% of the dahlia tubers have sprouted and are above ground. I think the rate on the gladiolus bulbs was 100% – will be super happy if those do well and bloom as well.

Attempting cuttings of Mimosa pudica to try and fill in the front area that’s all bidens (and sad bidens at that). Will also hopefully put some perennial peanut. Need to be able to use it for parking so needs to be hardy stuff that can take a beating, but might look okay so we don’t just have a great looking flower garden framed by fried Bidens alba.

Today In the Garden

Planted in the crocosmia, last of the day lilies, and some pentas from M.J.. Gladiolus are peeking through the ground as well as one of the lilies (non-daylily).

Need to get BT for the squash – Alexandria squash is up – the rest were put in soil blocks a few days ago but haven’t popped yet. Pepper plants seem to be lagging – not sure why.

Space for tomato plants is lacking. Hopefully one more load of compost from Poo-fessional Services in Odessa and we can put in a bed dedicated to some tomato and…something. Or if the broccoli ever gets ready to eat we can eat it, pull it out, and put tomatoes where it was. We shall see.

Flowers on the Weeping Santa Rosa Plum, peaches on the peach tree – I’d have to go look to remind myself of the variety – and the Snow Queen Nectarine and the Fuyu Persimmon has finally blossomed out.

Drat

I love having typed up a whole post, but forgetting to save the draft and realizing later that this isn’t google docs and everything doesn’t save automatically.

Guess I’ll have to write that up another time. Have to attempt to finish my word for the day before the tiny one starts to do the bedtime fall-apart routine.

Hope you’re all having a happy quarantine. I really need to remember to package up the elastic to send to a few people who are hard at work making masks for others. Someone remind me. I keep forgetting. I keep forgetting lots of things.